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In Memorium
My cousin, Anthony, died late Wednesday or early Thursday. We don't know for sure how yet, as it is a coroner's case, but it was probably suicide. He's been in and out of hospital for depression and suicide watch for years, and he's tried several times before, so that's most likely. As Mum said, when someone is that determined, you can only keep them from success for so long. Eventually, they'll succeed.

Mum is flying out to England tonight to go stay with Auntie Anne, his mum. She'll probably be there till Thanksgiving weekend-ish. I've heard nothing about Uncle Jon, his father and Mum's good for nothing brother, so I don't even know if he knows or cares. He randomly took off and left them some years ago, and for months and months nobody even know where he was or if he was alive. As you may be able to tell, I'm not a huge fan of Uncle Jon.

Since it's a coroner's case, we don't even know when the funeral will be, and of course I'm not going since I would have to fly out to England to do so. As much as I would like to, I can't afford it and I have to be here for school.

I haven't even got a picture of Anthony to put here.

Is it wrong of me to want to know for sure how he died?
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No, how can it be wrong? He was your cousin. Sometimes we need to know things for closure.

I'm sorry to hear of your loss *hugs*

Not at all. It's natural curiousity and a necessary question for closure, just like "Why?".

*sads for you*

Of course not. You are being a concerned cousin and in my book, that's a good thing.

I'm sorry. That's really sad. I hope everyone else is alright, including you.

I'm about as all right as I can be, considering. Luckily, my roommate also happens to be my best friend, and I have lots of other friends around so I don't have to go through this alone.

Thanks for your concern.

That's good. Being around good friends is always nice. I hope you're able to get through this.

That's what friends are for. :-)

Call Me Anytime

Hey darlin, I just read your post, how are you doing? You can definitely call me anytime you know that right! I miss you lots!

PS: I know this isn't really the time but your stuff that I ordered came in for you. Just let me know when you want them kay.

Love you darlin,

Long distance calls are really expensive from res, so I actually can't. D:

But whee! Stuff!

no hun not wrong very normal and often needed for closure.

I'm so sorry I haven't had a chance to talk to you in a bit, and when I finally get internet at the house, I read your post.
I'm really sorry for you and for him.
When someone leaves you like that, you want to know the truth.
Again, I'm really sorry.
I wish I could hug you! *hugs&loves*

Hey, it's okay. I don't expect you to ne able to keep up with my LJ when you have no internet.

Thanks for the hugs and the concern, though. ^^

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